my ex broke up with me cos we were constantly fighting first he said he needed a brake but then decided to leave me. he says he still loves me and I know he does I can see it in his eyes... I just want us to b a family again...why do guys leave when they still claim to love you? I'm giving him space we have not seen each other now 4 a month cos I'm spending time with my family over seas should I approach him if he has changed his mind when I get back...or let him approach me thing is he thinks I have moved on already which I'm pretending as the saying goes you don't know what you got till its gone... I'm pretending I'm back with one of my exes...that a good idea or not? what should I do please help guys I so wish I could read a mans mind sometimes! xx
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Never a good idea to pretend anything (and if you want to get back with him, it might be a good idea to reveal your lie and explain your reasoning behind it). And as for reading guys minds, we aren't so different from you - just think about it from our point of view. We hurt, we cry, and we yearn for love just the same way you do.
As far as getting back together, well... that's for only time to tell. It's hard getting over "stagnant feelings", and as soon as he feels like his life is repeating the same pattern, he'll be out again.
Best of luck to you0
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