Long story short, the guy I was seeing told me he doesn't know what he wants and I told him I'd give him space to figure things out. For almost 2 weeks I had no contact with him. I don't want to be in so much pain anymore while waiting. It's too much for me to handle and it's interfering with my daily life now. So I decided while he's at work one day, to put the stuff of his in a bag with the note "Really wish things could have happened differently. Sorry and wish you all the best. Do whatever makes you happy" and leave it on his doorstep. I feel like that's the best closure I will get. He's a genuine guy who just happened to be confused, although I'm upset I do not think he is a bad person or a jerk. What do you think he will think about it?
Also, does this idea sound stalkerish?