So a situation came up between me and my boyfriend in which he was upset about something that he did to me. We were supposed to meet for lunch the next day and he never called. So I left messages/texts made a bunch of phone calls for two days straight trying to figure it out and see what happened?
Its been almost three weeks and he sent me a final goodbye text message wishing me good luck with my future.
I, as an idiot replied with three text messages!
Now I realized, he probably wasn't talking to me that one day we were supposed to meet for lunch because he needed his space, and instead of me giving it to him I kept calling.
I think I came across as too needy and this pushed him away!
During our relationship I never showed that quality, I was always confident and independent and I think that is what he liked about me, so when this happened it must have turned him off!
We live and hour and a half away and we will probably never cross paths, he rarely checks his facebook...so I have no idea how I can get him to come back without seeming too needy?
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maybe you could email him and write what you wrote above stating you should have given him space etc and you apologize etc. but you can't seem clingy. tell him you agree with break up, wish him luck to and tell him thanks for everything etc. Then tell him that everything is good, your terms of ending are good and stay in touch as friends. once a week contact him.
and by the way indpendant and strong is good, but guys do like girls who are into them and caring and sweet and stuff. so don't be too strong and ind.0