So my ex boyfriend moved away 7 months ago, and that's why we broke up. After he moved, we didn't talk all summer and then finally he apologized and wanted to be friends, so we became friends. I even found out that he was planning on moving back after he graduated to be with me. He said I was his "dream". So we talked everyday for a few months, then he just...stopped. Without any word or explanation, he just stopped talking to me.
It's been two months since we last spoke. I think about him every day and just keep wondering the same thing...why? Why did he give up? Why did he stop trying? Why am I not his dream anymore? I've accepted the fact that he's not coming back, and that's fine. But I still just want to know why.
Do you guys think I deserve an explanation? Should I try to ask him? Or should I forget about it? I feel like I won't have closure until I find out...but maybe that's best? I don't know. Opinions?
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I say ask. If you don't think you'll be able to find closure without an explanation (and I don't blame you), what's the harm? He may choose not to respond and if that's the case there's not much else you can do. I will say though, regardless of his reasoning, don't get back with this guy. I mean one day he's telling you you're his "dream" and the next day he's gone. If he really cared as much as he claimed to he wouldn't have dropped you like he did. It all comes down to respect. What he did was disrespectful and you don't need that.0