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How about love more selfishly? If I dated only girls for whom I was their most perfect match, with billions of guys on the planet, I'd be letting them go left and right in favor of better opportunities than me. The probabilities are weighted against me with those numbers. And they would be for any guy.
Or you can take what you want, and maybe be a little selfish... I don't mean some possessive asshole, but not what you showed me now in that text -- lame (apologies if I'm blunt, I believe it to be for your own good).