How do I break up with my boyfriend who I really love?

Me and my boyfriend been together for over 2 years
We both have done stupid things in our relationship
And overtime, I have trust issues with him
And he kind of have trust issues with me now
We both said that we love each other and dont want to lose each other
But i feel like there's no point being in a relationship where there's no trust

I really really love him
And dont want to break it off
But deep down, I know I need to...
I know ill be so hurt and heartbroken
And ill be missing him

he's the first guy I've ever loved
We are each others longest relationship
Im the first girl he's introduced to his whole family including his parents
Last week, he invited me for dinner with his grandparents for the first time.. who he adores and respects

I don't know what to do 😔😔😭😭


Most Helpful Guy

  • Do not say or agree to “let’s be friends” it won’t happen and isn’t healthy. It prevents one from moving on and causes problems with future relationships

    • If we do end up breaking up, ofcourse I won't be friends with him

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think you need to talk to him more or just give yourself some space to figure out if its really worth it. I broke up with my boyfriend too for similar reasons but now im regretting it. Luckily we are still on good terms so we can get back together because i really love him. Guess you dont know what you have until its gone


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What Guys Said 1

  • Talk to him and get shit done.


What Girls Said 5

  • Talk to him about. Be open and honest in your discussion. In this situation I wouldn’t go in with the thought of “we are going to break up” or the thought of “I don’t want to break up.” Go in with an open heart and mind. Talk maturely and understand each other’s points of view. Come to a conclusion that you are comfortable with.

  • I feel sorry for you ♡♡
    How is stuff going between you two now?
    The same or different?

    I know what you are going through.
    It has been the same with me. ♡

  • You can try to go to therapy
    Read the BIBLE
    Talk to God

  • I don't know doz

    • Then dont comment.🤦‍♀️

  • Talk to him about it and sort out the situation.


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