Most Helpful Guys
Things happen. Nothing lasts forever. Nothing is exactly ever permanent. Just give it time, maybe he really wants to see you and be with you but the distance makes it so difficult he wants to try something different first. Who knows? He might change his mind later. Just don't dwell on it and find other things to get busy with and move on. Like maybe get a pet and take care of it, or if you already have one, spend more time with it. Travel, go dine out and try eating and drinking out at new and different places. Or whatever you really like and want to do to fill that void. You'll be a'ight.
It says a hell of a lot more about him and his fear of commitment than about you honestly. If a guy is hopping like that it means he was looking while still in a relationship rather than working on whatever it was he felt wasn't right in the relationship.
He's a manchild, move on and find someone more loyal.
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Most Helpful Girls
My ex left me for his coworker and married her. Mind you, we did not have an LDR. I get sour feelings these days when I think about it but the sting hurts less over time. Time, just time
I’ll tell you how I got over my child’s father getting another girl pregnant when I was 8m pregnant and leaving us when she was 4m old... I kept busy. Simple as that. I kept busy with work, being a mother, a second job and my absolute focus was on bettering myself for my daughter.. when he saw that I was keeping busy, not returning texts that didn’t pertain to our child, and was “doin me” he begged me to let him come back. He’s been exiled from my life but doors have not closed for him and my daughters relationship. If I sat in my ass all day, crying about it, I would have been weak enough to take him back. Seriously, my only advice is do something to stay busy.. work, go to the gym, get a side hustle, anything that sparks PROGRESSION. Good luck..