I have been married to my husband for almost 10 years, and Sunday night he punched me and spat in my face. I took my kids and left the house. He keeps calling and begging me to come home. He's crying and saying how sorry he is...and he's threatening to kill himself. I'm NOT going back...but I do love him. How can I make it stop hurting so much to hear him cry? I hate to hear that...it makes me so sad.
- I would take his calls and try to calm him down.Vote A
- I would stop taking his calls.Vote B
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Your a woman I am sure you have used or are familiar with the tactic of crying. This is kind of a pathetic move on his part. Maybe he does feel sorry but if he did I don't think he would call you up right away and beg and cry at you, that's manipulative. The safety of your kids is most important with your safety a close second. Him actually sorry might be him calling days later/writing a letter or sending you flowers. Sorry could be him not calling you back at all idk. You are not obligated to make him feel happy, clearly he is not feeling obligated to make you feel good.0