We live together for 5 years. I told him many times how I feel, there is no improvement. Is break up really only solution?
- You should break up.
- You should not.
- I don't know
Most Helpful Guys
All relationships lose their passion as they get old. In the end all that is left is your friendship with the other person.
Why should he always adore you when you make no progress. In fact it's opposite: you're getting older and less attractive. And you want the same passion and romantics out of the blue. Are you crazy?
You are asking a stupid question. If it would be something like "I dropped 3 stones in the gym, put silicone breasts, made skin procedures, put in elite make up and did a model haircut and he still doesn't notice that"... Well that could be reasonable. But as you're dreaming about a breakup, geez, do it. The guy deserves someone better.
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Most Helpful Girls
There are ups and downs in every relationship. He might have something else on his mind bothering him or dealing with. Instead of expecting attention, try to give him attention by asking him if there’s something wrong or something he wants to tell you about. There might be something happening outside of your relationship. It’s not always about us (women). Try to be supportive even if you think that there’s nothing he’s bothered about. He will appreciate it even if he doesn’t show it.
Surprise him with something you know he’d love. Make yourself look beautiful with no reason. Change your hairstyle or something else in your appearance.
If he doesn’t talk to you or doesn’t show you much affection it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you anymore. He’s just settled. You need to keep the fire on.
I mean if you really love him, talk to him about how you feel!! If he still doesn't meet your needs, find someone who will <3