i asked him if they had a fight, he said no. he just realized that im the one for him.
i told him he has to think 100x on what he wants.
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If he really loved you and didn't want to lose you, he would have tried to work things out between the two of you to figure out what went wrong and how it can be fixed. Taking a break is either prolonging the problem or is an excuse to break out of a relationship based on the research and experiences I've studied. It sounds like you loved him very much, but something went wrong for him to break it off with you like that. Seems like he moved on since he didn't make any effort to contact you and allowed his ex-girlfriend to hang around him.
The best advice I can give you here is to think back about what went wrong and improve upon it! Not all relationships work out accordingly and if you learn from them and take that knowledge to the next guy you met, you'll be more prepared for the next relationship! A tip for the future, it's ok to express your emotions about how you feel but begging is not the most effective way to try to win a person's heart back; being calm and confident while expressive shows maturity and a desire to fix the situation.
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