So I friend of mine talked to me today that she saw my ex in front of her at the Starbucks. Just thinking about saying hi and seeing what's up. I also want to kind of bury that hatchet if you will because the break up didn't end well and its been a year and a half now and I think we could be friends. Would it be a good idea to do that at all or would it seem pathetic especially around the holidays like I have nothing else to do. If not what should I say.
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I think that's really nice of you and she would likely be really grateful if you did, because that would show your intelligence and also show that you are mature enough to know when to just let the past be the past and move on and that you don't harbor bad feelings anymore.
My ex contacted me once to tell me he was sorry, even though it was my fault, and it gave me SO much respect for him after that, even more than I had before.
Good for you for putting others first and understanding what the holidays TRULY mean - its not pathetic at all. Its admirable!0