so everyone I've talked to has told me the way to win back an ex is to
-have no contact,wait for him him to contact you (which I did, we didn't talk for 3 months then he got a hold of me)
-then when you start to communicate again, to be a really good friend and not pressure him
-give him space
well now that I've been doing this I want to know in a guy's opinion if that actually works..?
we were together for over 3 yrs, he broke up with me saying "he loves me, but not like he used to"
but the entire time we've been broken up (5 months) he hasn't been with any other girls (I know for sure)
and when we hangout its just the best, is there a chance of rebuilding our relationship over time if I continue being a good friend and showing him how great I am, and how great we are together? is there anything else I can do to get him back?
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That is what they say is the best thing to do, but from experience I don't know if it works. I'm trying it right now too. But I think the most important thing to do it just try to move on. If it is meant to be it will happen. Because it causes you too much pain focusing so much on trying to get him back (I know this first hand). So try to live your life without him and keep up the no contact, only talk to him if he contacts you.0