we first me t when we were 16. we have been together for 6 years 4 years into the relationship we had our first kid together. we got married about 3 weeks ago and while on our honeymoon I caught him kissing another girl on the lips. he has never kissed or touched or talked to another girl in the wrong way. I don't know f I should confront him about it or just let it go and watch him about it.
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Obviously you two have serious history together. Meeting at 16 and remaining together for nearly six years. Now you have a child together and have taken it a step further- marriage.
It seems very strange that he has decided to kiss another woman, while on your HONEYMOON of all times, especially with a prior history of never doing such things.
This is a very sticky situation considering your newlyweds and have a child together. Although divorce is a step, it is a HUGE step and I doubt that has crossed your mind.
I think you need to sit down and have a serious, open discussion. Approach him and ask what made him do it and remain calm and open to his reasonings. Perhaps he had cold feet following the wedding and wanted to get it out of his system- six years of one woman, even before marriage, is a long time with a single person. But despite his reasoning, you need to make it known that you will not tolerate such behavior. You two are married now, and more importantly, you have a family. It is not acceptable for either of you to cheat on each other because it is not only hurtful, it is hurtful for your family.
Don't outleash and go nuts on him, but be open and calm and show that you must have respect and trust in your relationship and that you wouldn't do something like that to him and you expect the same trust and respect from him.
Good luck, and I hope everything works out!0