I have been in a relationship for 5 years straight (two different guys/relationships not at same time) and throughout this time I have been friends with this guy, Adam. Adam has confessed his undying love for me (his words, not mine) for the last 4 years, and it is getting to the point that he is planning this life with me that I don't consent to. He is my friend, and I do care for him... but it's getting kind of scary.
How to break it to him gently...
What Guys Said 1
I feel like trying to break it to him 'gently' is a lost cause. You're going to have to be somewhat outright about it. Have you pulled him aside (in person) and told him how you really feel about the situation and how it is really bothering you?
Failing that, maybe it's time to create the fictionally man of your dreams and tell him about this guy, or create some separation.0
What Girls Said 1
Its something you just need to be brutally honest about. He will be upset and it may effect your friendship... but that might be for the best as you are kind of stringing him along. You know that you don't have feelings for him and there is nothing there... but he probably sees it differently, and believe there is more than just freindship between you.0
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