What should I do?
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It's just gonna take time.
At least you didn't marry her and you don't have children with her right?
Trust me that makes getting over her so much harder. Imagine if you still had to see her everyday to pick up your child, it's torture to not have any space after someone hurts you.
At least you have distance from her now.
It sucks and you feel betrayed right?
It's humiliating too.
The thing is that it's almost like a right of passage for men, her cheating will change you.
You won't trust women the same anymore.
You're gonna get through it though.
The depression will go away and eventually she won't be as important to you.
It just takes time a lot of nightmares.
You will feel normal again eventually.
Good luck to you.
You built a massive dream on horrible foundations as I see it. And now it's like everything has come crumbling down, and that can be particularly devastating if you revolved your entire idea of your future happiness around that dream.
But if you want to recover from broken dreams and hopes then you have to start building new ones: new goals to pursue that engage you and keep you interested. That's easier said than done but that's the path to recovery as I see it, and that dream doesn't have to revolve around something as unpredictable as another human being. It could just be something that fills you with excitement and motivation when you wake up, like something you always wanted to do but didn't.
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