I was so hurt that the person who I loved so much looked that way at our relationship, which I put so much effort in. It hurt that the person who decided to get to know me, changed their mind about me and no longer cares for me. (He does not want anything to do with me) I’m having trouble accepting myself, and some moments I feel like I’m not enough. Does anyone know how I can erase these thoughts?
Most Helpful Guys
It would be too harsh on you being so nice to him and later rejected, I know it's not easy to accept the fact but to get rid Its better to empty yourself before you move ahead, I know there might be lots and lots of emotions and feelings, frustration cooking around your thoughts, try getting deep into it and pour everything out on paper or socially or if you feel like sharing you can share with me, unless you pour it out those thing will remain in you and might frustrate you or hurt you even more.
After this you can adapt new hobbies like getting into other shoes and helping, spending time with families, friends etc.
Make new friends get to know them...
It did helped me that's why I am sharing with you, I even helped others knowing I won't be gaining anything in return
When he said you were too perfect for him, it didn't mean that the problem was in you, but he meant he wanted a relationship without commitment or responsibilities. the relationship wasn't enough for him because it gave him more than he expected... like love, respect, appreciation, and commitment. refusing all these positive qualities by saying 'too perfect' is proof that the problem is not about you, it's about him.
the bottom line is, he is not the right guy for you. he may look teary eyed while telling you this, maybe because, in some way or another, he still wants you around. but he chooses to let you go because he wants you to find the real happiness that he has realized he can never give you. the best you can do is accept that this relationship wasn't perfect for you, not for him.
Most Helpful Girl
Fuck another's ex..