Ok, Look. We've been taking for a few months now and recently he claims that his dad is threatening him with boot camp if he doesn't get his grades up. After talking over the phone for an hour he decides that we should separate until my birthday which is in 3 months. I told him choose what's best for him and he said that was. I've been in tears since. He says he still loves me and he's sorry a lot and that we won't forget me and we will get back but I can't help but feel like its a lie. Should I believe Him? And How should I act around him now? We sit next to each other in a class?
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you know, sometimes grades are pretty important, especially if it's for college or in general. the thing is, if he says he wants a break, then take it, focus on yourself a bit more. that means that the relationship is open, for now. meaning if he chooses to hook up with another girl he can. if he calls you to hook up on a whim, don't, because that will give him more of a reason to take even a longer break, and you may be put in the position of friends with benefits. granted he is a good guy, they say distance makes the heart go fonder, so try sitting in a different spot, meet new people. Act the way you would normally act around him just minus the affection. Try not being in contact with him for a while, and prepare yourself for the worst case scenario.0