So in order to get him back do I have to not take him back? I'm confused. He says I don't suite his current lifestyle and have no intention of change. This other girl has a job... A high school student level job and another boyfriend too! I happen to be in the process of switching career paths and I am trying to discover what to do with my life. It's not like I'm not focused on that... He should know that.
So I think he just needed an excuse to justify his behaviour and not feel any guilt for talking to the other girl despite how upset it makes me.. which is another reason he was mad at me... I didn't trust that he was being honest when he said she was finally gone for good.. low and behold now he's gone running to her again! What do I do? (Other then give up)
Most Helpful Guy
yeah you don't sound desperate at all lol
Most Helpful Girl
He's a player and will always be do you want that kind of drama in your life always feeling not good enough or wandering whose going to be the next side piece.
He's actually telling you you don't suit his lifestyle/life!
Other than give up. Well you get yourself a guy make yourself available to others.
When you find a decent guy you won't believe how good he will treat you, trust me