Most Helpful Guy
It hurts, but you have to thank God that this relationship didn't start as you wanted. maybe it happened so fast, and I bet it happened for the best. you were going to be the prey of a disappointing relationship, but things started to get clearer when that guy decided to reveal what he wanted from you, so you should be grateful, not sad. look at things from another perspective.
Most Helpful Girl
For the love of God don't agree to the friends with benefits, especially if you already have feelings towards him. You will basically torment yourself for those unrequited needs that he obviously can't provide. That pain you're feeling now? Does not even come close to the pain friends with benefits can cause if not agreed upon strictly.
Know your worth. 'Cause he ain't shit if he makes you feel this way.
Its okay to be sad & heartbroken for a bit then just let it fuel you to focus on what you truly want out of life, have the last laugh by moving on to bigger & better things.