Now 6 months later of no contact, I contacted him to get some final things off my chest emotionally and he told me he got over us and is now in a new relationship with someone he "truly cares about"... I am in shock. For someone that was so certain of his love for me, he moved on in no time at all it seems. Were his strong feelings for me ever real and if so how do some men move on so quickly?
Most Helpful Guys
Honestly doesn’t even sound like he really loved you. What he felt for you at the time he may have co fused w love. I think this girl he’s w now was already in his menu when he was w you. He sounds like he’s full of it, “fear of being in love for the first time” was just a poor excuse to get to this other girl. I could understand if he had been w someone before like myself for about 3 years, then she chested in me. To which for a number of years I broke up w girls I really like in fear of it happening again. But this doesn’t sound like the case. Now women may tend to think we get over relationship ships quicker then women, which isn’t always true especially if he a man really loved someone. We’re just better at not really showing it cause we’ve been programmed to be a “man.” Trust me it doesn’t go away that easy, I know took me years to get over that one girl.
Sometimes people change. Sometimes people grow out of their previous emotions. Or sometimes people are just good at coming to terms that a relationship is over, and they move on. The grieving process for some people is much shorter than others.
Most Helpful Girl
I move on quickly but this sounds like he was and is still very immature and unaware of real love. It's not a reflection of your inability to be loved, it's his inability to love. It's not easy but know he wasn't worthy of you and someone some day will be.