I have a boyfriend...its been around 3 and a half years since we have been together.
The sad part is I have caught him cheating (thrice to be precise). I love him like mad. We are compatible to the keel. I mean we gel in so much.
He never wants to leave me. every time I find out something, he says he fell for it but he realizes his mistake and does not want me to go.
I have been told enough to Leave him. That is logical. But why does not anyone understand that we are now a part of each other. Its like we are the best of buddies. and in love.
The worst part was when he was heating me for a girl who was verry pretty and he said that he fell for her because she was so pretty. I have the lowest esteem possible since then :(. I think I am too ugly. Is That so true?
He is in Germany now, far from me.could he be cheating on me again...and have affairs there too.
Please help me out. I really don't know how do I leave him., He is like family. My best and only friend.
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Well Don't have low esteem guys come across loads of pretty girls in a day but that deosnt mean they run off with every girl they see , firstly he must be attracted to you to be your boyfriend in the first place so that means your attractive ! but one thing he seems like a player I know you probarly didn't want to hear this but its the truth he seems to want more than he can have like he has ypu and he still wants more girls even if they are pretty that doesn't mean he dumps he girlfriend for her my advice is get a grip of things as they are ,face reality because yes he probarly is cheating in germany ! and You deserve way better than him an you can do way better than him I know you may think your in love with him but its probarly just lust because I couldn't love a guy like that sorry but that's me ! find some guy who really cares and wants to love you too and will work in the relationship for the two of ye and who won't leave you for a another girl because when a guy is in love the only girl he finds PRETTY and BEAUTIFUL is his girlfriend or the women he is in love with :)))really hope I helped :D x x0
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