Me and my ex broke up 2 years ago in July. It was a messy break up nothing crazy but we would still say I love you and things like that than stopped talking completely. For a year after that I texted him and said I missed him and blah blah blah but when I saw he was in a relationship I completely stopped contacting him. [Keep in mind I still love him a little ... if possible ha] After a year of absolutely NO contact he adds my sister on a network and messages her after 3 weeks with a "Hey stranger ! lol"
And continues to ask how I have been and what I have been up too ... my question is why didn't he come to me !
What is going on in his head ?
He is still with his girlfriend of a year [I think] !
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Sounds like he's dissatisfied with his current girlfriend and is reminiscing about the relationship he had with you ("oh the good time I had with her"... "she used to do this or that"... etc). He's probably contacting your sister to non-nonchalantly get back into your life to see if you'd still be available to him. In other words, why would he risk knocking on the front door when he thinks your sister might give him some inside information?
You need to remember why you broke up in the first place and remember that there is another person involved now (his current girlfriend). If you do want to get back with him, don't just sleep with him because that would put you in a very vulnerable position. He could just blow you off after that, or you'll be a home wrecker in a relationship with a shaky restart after a "crazy" finish. Let him sweat for awhile and show that he wants to be with you too by leaving the other girl, officially. If you don't want him back, then tell him to stop bothering your sister. You haven't talked to him in a year, so he's obviously not a big part of your life. Whatever you do, he can't have it both ways.0