i am a 26 blond swimsuit model, environmental law student, tennis player,virgin and christian, and charity worker an ex-boyfriend I broke as long distance, as too hard to make it work but we decided to be friends : )
i was cool with this as I got all the benefits of having him in my life but getting to date other guys : )
Now I am the first girl to say when I think another girl is amazing, I thought at one time I am a lesbian as I get girl crushes and I am not being rude here but he got the ugliest date ever personality and physically, but when he saw me came up to me and hugged me, but it stil upset me so I messaged him when I got home "it's the hardest thing in the world not being your girlfriend but I am so glad we've come this far and are stil friends and I love you : )" he text back and said he felt the same way
after that we talked every day, he checked my blog everyday and we had friendly phone calls but I stil said I jus wanted to be his friend"
THEN one day I asked him to the beach and he was off with me so I rang him immediately and he said that the date had and he was dating was jealous off me so he couldn't see me anymore, I burst in to tears and he said he'd have to "care for me from a distance" and he didn't know how long for so I agreed but cried my eyes out.
i carried on as normal and kept updating my blog and said a quote "don't ever apologize for who you are"
i couple of weeks went by and he was failing at school but we didn't see each other or talk, then he updated his blog wishing everyone a happy thanksgiving"
so I sent him a message wishing him a happy Thanksgiving and how much I missed him as a friend - no reply
then I sent him one a few days later asking if he won't talk to me why read my blog everyday as it felt weird and uncomfortable ? no reply
then a few days later I text it was upsetting me so much its affecting my tennis
he then said "i've blocked your blog so you don't have to worry about me reading it "
shocked I called him no answer so I messaged " if he would like to be a part of my life read my blog or not and then we perhaps could finally move on and he said
"i choose to not have you in my life we move on"
WTF I haven't stopped crying this was a guy who said I am the most amazing beautiful girl in the world, kind, sweet, smart funny, and not other girl in the world has anything on me, so why doesn't he want me in his life any more ?
and he's still best friends with my uncle
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No see you friend zone'd him.. He may have said he was okay with the friendship thing because he was in denial of it but when you started dating others it hit him and he decided to cut his losses. I'm sure you are the most amazing beautiful girl in the world who's king sweet smart and funny and that they broke the mold when they made you. But all he wants is a relationship, nothing more. There's a good chance he want's your body as well and now that he knows that's not happening he's breaking off from you.0