Sunday morning at 3am, he unblocked me on Facebook and sent a message to me. All it said was "You won". He blocked me again so I can't reply, but I managed to get a text through to him that simply said "Nobody won", but I got no response. All I did was tell the other woman, but she apparently told his parents, who were- in her words- "disgusted" by his behavior. I don't know who else knows but I didn't do anything malicious. I didn't set out to ruin his life. I was good to him and gave him everything he wanted and needed. I still cry almost every day over what he did and he sends me a message implying I was trying to beat him at something. I don't understand what he means by it and would appreciate any insight.
Most Helpful Guy
Mmmm. Based on the information provided, I would guess simply that the woman didn't know that he was two-timing her, as well, and so she left him, leaving him to end up alone and with bitching parents. Perhaps his parents also did something to affect his life negatively, as a response. Since you may have been the causal factor in all that, even if it wasn't intentional, the ultimate outcome of his life being damaged was probably an outcome that he thought you would have wanted--if not orchestrated.
In other words, he might not have thought that was your intent, but he thought that the outcome of his life being affected negatively would be something you would feel victory over.
Most Helpful Girl
For a person who doesn't know what love is, it's normal that he thinks this is some kind of competition. And there is no need to understand him. It's enough to know that you did your best, the problem was in him. You deserve better.