I met this guy in September and fell really hard for him. Recently he texted me saying that he "wants me now" and I'm wondering if I should give it a second try.
Back story: The guy and I would hangout before class and I really liked him. I'd leave anything I was doing study sessions, hanging out with friends, dinners. Just to hangout with him. Well one morning I went to Breakfast at a restaurant an he kept texting me. I explained that I was at breakfast with the girls but he kept texting me making it impossible for me to enjoy my time with them so I made everyone leave early. The guy meets me at my room and we had a pretty big fight over absolutely nothing I can't even remember what it was about . It was so futile. Well he walked out and waited for me at the top of the stairs to get him but I was so OVER compromising at that point. And I basically watched him walk out on me and our relationship. I was extremely hurt and I cried for about 3 weeks. The next three months we'd see each other out and about and he would act as if I didn't exist. He wouldn't text me back or acknowledge me. Note: we have not slept together
Recently he texted me and our convo went like this:
Me:Sup? (after asking him to identify himself cause I deleted his number.)
Him:So what time are you coming back to campus?
Me: I'm confused
Me: this, how do you go from ignoring me and treating me like sh*t to wanting to chill?
Him: Your cute :)
Me: I want a real and honest answer.
Me: Your not even telling me why, you really hurt my feelings
Him:I really liked my ex but now I'm over her
Him: I'm really sorry and yeah, I want you now :)
Me: what you did was super f***ed up and I'm not saying its okay but I'm guessing we can chill.
Him :) :) :)
* we continue to talk and he uses pet names such as baby, babe, hun, baby boo, and love
** I ask him why he is attracted to me and he responds with saying my face is beautiful and my body is banging. He also states that he missed/misses me
He normally would never talk to me like this and I called him out on it and he responded with a stop :( when I asked him where his real self was he responded with a I don't know :( .I was like don't be sad I meant it as a compliment that you've changed .
*** So after getting the back story about us should I give it a second shot? Or is he just trying to get me to sleep with him?
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Sorry, he doesn't sound right for you. Hurting you because he wanted another girl and now wants you back because you body is "bangin." I don't think so, you could do so much better. It seems like to me you were almost like a back up plan. A guy needs to respect his girl and be true to JUST her. He needs to prove himself to you more than that before you even consider doing such a thing. Maybe he will learn from this and grow to be a better guy. When and if he does that, then Id give him another chance, otherwise you will most likely be heading down the same path again. Hope this helps.1