So I discovered that my husband cheated on me and I was extremely hurt and upset. So while I was at work today a guy I work with has been flirting with me and so I went out with him. Well long story short we ended up having sex. And now I feel guilty even though HE cheated on ME. What should I do?
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That is called tit for tat... Well, I don't necessarily agree with it, but I know you were hurting and this other person was there. It goes both ways, if he cheated on you, it may not have been the first time, I hate to say. I am in the same age bracket. I have cheated before, I'm not married, but after the fact it made me feel exhilarated and upset at the same time. Work though it. If its meant to be it will be. I suggest counseling. maybe there is something missing, that you both need to discuss with each other. Be honest it will only hurt you more. Don't lie to him like he lied to you. People do not deserve that type of treatment. I am sorry you experienced that from him, but maybe this is a sign for you. To help you realize what you have, or may NOT have. Good luck I do wish you the best in your decision!2
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