Basically we dated for 2 years on and off and she was madly in love with me, I never really fully committed to her and cheated on her twice with my ex (before her) girlfriend. she was devastated but still tried to make it work and trust me until 2months ago where she said she can't do it anymore, as I never really did much to build trust I would just argue when she questioned me.
I have had plenty of relationships but after losing her I have realized how much I really love her, & I know I don't deserve her but I know I can treat her right if she gave me that chance.
She has been very clear she can't be with me, the bad memories really hurt her & don't go out her mind, but doesn't want to lose me out her life & wants to be friends!?
Anyway she has my fb passwords and goes on it everyday to see what I'm up to who I speak to etc but contacts me every other day with random chit chat. Didn't speak to her for 4days (longest since breakup) and she rang me yday as I changed my passwords and I just said what's the point how can I forget you when you have it I get false hope thinking if you want to know my business you might want me back and that I can't remain friends until I'm truly over u. she texted me that she cried all yday night and day as she missed me but doesn't think she can trust anyone and is scared to date anyone and get hurt again and she wants me to be happy..
I replied saying I want you to be happy what can I do? she said "forget me, but not the good times we had, if we are meant to talk & be friends later in life it will happen, leave it to god"
I really want her back so I have tried to be friends let her know I can be loyal (give my passwords etc) but nothing has changed, should I stay friends and hope she eventually changes her mind or walk away? even if I walk away I know I will constantly hope she contacts me..
Please help I feel remorse for how I hurt her and love her so much.
I stopped smoking pot after 7 years which is really depressing me too, I did that after we broke up as I realized it contributed to my actions and depressed me more but now I feel worse!
She cried and missed me! Given me false hope again & I feel like asking her to meet me, should i?
I don't know if I should tell her or not!
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wow, you got her name tattooed on your chest? You should tell her!
anyways, well tell her how sorry you are and how much you are willing to change for her and do anything to make her happy the second time around. buy her flowers and have them sent to her every single week.
do this for about a month and keep calling and texting every day so that she won't stop thinking of you and realize you are persistent and won't give up!
if she, after a month, tells you cut the crap out then it's really up to you to continue or just leave her alone like she requested.1