Relationship went beyond sour after her departure. Situation is hopeless. We talked twice in 8 months. What words do I need to say and things do I need to do for her to rescue her from life without yours truly?
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Sadly, there isn't much you can say or do. You can apologize, send flowers, write poems, beg, plead, cry...but if she doesn't want to be with you anymore, then game over. My relationship went beyond sour as well. its devasting, heartbreaking. I've tried everything I knew to get him back, and it didn't work. I didn't want to believe this when people told me, and I still don't want to, but the TRUTH is, you must TRY to let her go. What your doing now isn't working right? so, the only thing you can do is go on with your life. TRUST ME...she will come back if she wants to. but you have to wait for her to make the decision. but, its very possible she may never come back. to give you a little hope, I have a story to tell you. I had a boyfriend when I was 16 and I thought he was the love of my life. It ended of course, and he went on to marry someone and have 2 children. I went on, met somone, and also had a child. 4 years after we broke up ( I am not 20), he shows up at my door! when I ask about his wife, he tells me they divorced. I was so happy, because I thought of him many times and wished we could be together. it was a short lived reconcilliation, but nonetheless, he DID come back. so, even though you may be thinking its hopeless, its not. But, don't stop living. Just make the decision one day (when your ready), to stop contacting her. Then, go a live your life. If you happend to meet somoene, GREAT! but if not, that's okay too. Just don't sit at home waiting for her to come back. I go out with friends and do things, and although I'm thinking of my ex while I'm out, I'm still out. I'm not sitting at home crying. so I wish you the very best of luck and keep me posted!0