There is no doubt that my ex and I ARE NOT getting back together :(. so, I've gone back on the same dating site where I met him. problem is, I keep comparing every body to him. When someone emails me, I think "oh, Matt would've done this." or "matt and I had a very comfortable conversation". and so forth. I know its not healthy to think that every guy is goign to do and say the things my ex says, so why can't I give these guys a chance instead of thinking of my ex? I am still in love with my ex, but I know we will never be together again. he has made it very clear. so I want to move on.