Self-explanatory... why would my ex beg me to call and talk to him and then hardly say a word when I ask what's up? I took a week to respond and he asked to talk later but never did and hasn't responded to my question yet.
Why beg ex to talk and then don't respond to messages?
What Guys Said 1
Depends on the situation really.. If your question put him in the spotlight then he's gonna feel high pressure, if that's so then he won't respond or be generally talkative. Here's how my ex would have made me feel that pressure (in junction with your situation as I see it)
Her: *Calls me*
Me: Hey, glad to see you called
Her: *More small talk* + "So, why when I call do you not talk to me?"
Me: What do you mean?
Her: You practically begged me to call, and when I do you have nothing to talk about
Me: I couldn't tell ya *hangs up phone*
There's several different ways that this pressure relates to how he perceives you:
- You may be coming off as more valuable than he is
- You may be coming off as more of a bitch
- You may be coming off as insecure/needy
Whatever it may be, you can't take it personally or dwell on it.. Just realize that he's been fake -> He wanted to talk and to have you invest effort, then he broke the agreement and didn't wanna invest any energy.. That's crap, move on.
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What Girls Said 1
been there. no idea, but I just brush it off and move on0
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