whats it mean when your ex all a sudden starts talking about your past relationship and getting into detail about things, also coming out and talking about things that really hurt him.. and how much he cared and did for me and so on you get the picture
does that mean he's wanting me back?
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He may want you back, or he may want some other form of validation out of you. If you're the one who broke it off, he may want some sign that you're remorseful to restore his ego. If he broke it off, he may want some sort of re-enforcement of his sense of control over your relationship.
A better question to ask might be why you're concerned about it. Do you want him back? Do you want him to want you back? Will discussing these things help you move on? If you want to be with him, the current status of your relationship will only build resentment between you which will hurt you in the long run - work it out together, as a team. If you don't want to be with him, your only prolonging the effects of the breakup and chasing away any potential new men (though single time is probably best). My advice: forget about his lamentations, break communications, and focus on yourself for a while.0