So this guy and I pretty much just met, he told my friend I was pretty, we flirt a ton, and every time we talk our conversations (not one on one, we haven't started that) seem to turn into.. naughty conversations.
But he has a girlfriend, that of which almost /sounds/ like a tease. He is always saying how she is a good "Christian" and probably won't have sex until he loves her. He just sounds a bit.. dragged down by her but not completely unhappy.
I know this sounds selfish, but I want him for myself (all of us want this at some point). So do you guys have any advice? What are some things I can say to help my image in his mind early on?
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This is a common problem, finding someone that likes you and you like them, but they have someone else.
From a outside perspective I would say, remain as friends until he has decided to break up with his current girlfriend. I am sure there are reasons while he is still with her. It could destroy and really hurt her, and I am sure you do not want that lying with you.
Stay close to this boy but do not attempt to break them up using words or putting her down, she is probably a very nice person.
From a inside perspective (which I can only relate to), it is very very very hard to think logically when you care for someone and they are with someone else. I know it is hard not to attempt to sabotage their relationship, but it will be for the best in the long run.0