My ex and I dated for about eight months, we spoke everyday. Well we recently broke up over Christmas break because he said he "didn't have time for a gf" right now. He had still been telling me that he loved me everyday but then when we brokeup he said he hadn't loved for awhile. Then why did he continue to keep saying it? I just need to prove to myself that I will be fine with out a guy. I need to be strong and sometimes I am but other times I'm not. :/
Guys- Why did he continue to say it? and why did he have to tell me he hasn't loved me in awhile just to hurt my feelings?
Girls- How do you get over a guy that you really did love and were so use to speaking to everyday?
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I am dealing with the same thing. I dated my ex girlfriend for 6 months, she broke up with me on our 6 month anniversary saying she didn't love me anymore, when just the day before she was teling me she loved me with all her heart. It makes no sense and it's really confusing. I know what you're going through. This actually happened a year ago yesterday. There could be many reasons why he broke up with you other than he "didn't have time for a gf." My girlfriend contacted me six months after she broke up with me and we started talking again and she admitted that when she broke up with me she still did love me, even though she said she didn't, but she was just afraid of being hurt again so she convinced herself to leave before she was left. The best advice I can give you is accept the fact that it's over. It's been a year for me, and I still haven't. I'm very naive and I don't think rationally when it comes to my ex, I still believe she loves me and it doesn't help anything. So admit to yourself it's over, keep yourself occupied with friends, work, school, activites, books, anything. I'm really sorry you're going through this. If you ever need someone to talk to, just shoot me a message. It will get better sweetie. I promise.1