I am a single mum of a 8month old babygirl , I live in California and her father lives in Illinois (wondering why: we were happy about the pregnancy then 2 weeks later he wanted me to fly back home due to him wanting to “move on , be free” while I was 2 months pregnant , he also had slept over a girls house when I was still living there and she dropped him off , I pretty much seen her) well now I’m in my hometown it’s been a year and he’s only seen his daughter 3 times in 8 months , the first time she was 3 weeks old the 2nd time it took him 6 months to see her him saying his job is busy and can’t take off days , 3rd time just recently on November 28 , we have a good parent bonding moments , we have fun. But... now I just found out from mutual friends that he gave the girl who he left me for while I was living in his parents house a ring , and he also purchased a house , now I don’t know what to do I’m crushed , I kind of feel like he was hiding his new home because he told me if I go visit we would be in his parents house , now I don't know what to do
Pls give me advice
Most Helpful Guy
What a jerk...
Only thing I can think of is talk to him directly and see what's he up to...
Most Helpful Girl
What is there to decide? He’s already made the choice for you hun, time to move on. You’re parenting on your own already so it’s not really a huge adjustment on that front - the feelings just need to catch up