We've both been single for 3 months now, and at first I really missed her, but that feeling started to fade after a while. Until she had the bright idea of talking to me while I'm trying to get over her. Since then, there have been 2 months of on and off lots of random contact. She doesn't believe in staying friends with ex's, yet talks to me heaps sometimes. Just the other night we had a 3 hour phone conversation about our old relationship. She apologized for things she did wrong, and not just "sorry". A long and deep apology. She's giving me major mixed signals, like saying she doesn't want to give me a second chance, then questioning me about what I would do if the two of us hooked up. I've tried everything, no contact, normal talking, even hooking up with other girls. It doesn't work. She acts like she's not over me, and that she misses me on some level, but completely denies it. What the hell do I do?
I don't know what to about my ex. I need some advice..
What Girls Said 1
I HATE how girls act sometimes. were really weird when it comes to things like this, ask her if instead of hooking up as a one time thing if you cantry something a bit farther to get her back0
What Guys Said 2
STOP communicating with her. She told you that she doesn't believe in being "friends" with exes. She put her foot in her mouth right there. I guarantee she wasn't meant to say that to you. She is trying to ease off of you slowly. She is in control and you have to break that. Since she is used to talking to you and used to you being there, she will milk you until she's done with you and she will move on. You are her emotional tampon and you are letting this happen. Move on and never go back to her. Ignore her, no calls, no texts, nothing. If she really wanted you she would be with you, period. She is playing a game that most girls like to play. Deep down most girls want to be the last girl that their ex is with. No matter what you tell her, it won't change anything so stop talking. Stop chasing her because she is enjoying that. She KNOWS she can have you anytime she wants, so to her it's too easy. No contact for a while doesn't work (especially to get a girl back), cutting all contact does work to totally move on.0
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