We have been texting a lot, and I went out on a night out and kissed someone else, he saw and then kissed another girl. He then told me when we went out again that he slept with her and I got abit upset and ignored him, and he kept trying to talk to me and went "can I explain". I don't know what to do, and I've cut him off from everything, is that the best thing?
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He is your EX, and he has no obligation to you. You kissed someone else, and he can do what he wants. Your ego is hurt just because he beat you at your own game. If you really wanted to be with him then you would be. Stop trying to play the victim here, because you were moving on to other guys. Your actions told him that you were over him and that you wanted the guy you were kissing, so he stopped chasing you, went to someone that wanted him, and now you are "hurt" over it. If you were just trying to make him jealous, you're upset that it didn't work. So you can only blame yourself. Stop playing games and listen to what he has to say for a change. If you really want him back, then be with him. It's that damn simple and girls like you always make it so complicated.0
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