Been seeing this guy for a few weeks; last night he said he might like to go out tonight, if he could finish work in time (he's got stuff going on at work). He said he'd know by lunchtime today and I teased a bit and said I'd hold his place till then. Well, he didn't call/text/email at lunchtime, and for some reason, I'm really disappointed.
I know he's busy at work, and I know he may not have an answer yet, etc, etc, but if he said he'd call me at lunch, why didn't he call or at least contact me at lunch? Even just to say "hey, I'm swamped right now, ttyl?"
What would be a guy-friendly way to let him know I'd rather hear from him one way or another, even if it's just to know he can't talk?
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I'm not exactly sure what "guy-friendly" means. But a good way to let him know would be to say something like:
"I was disappointed when you didn't call or text or anything like you said you would. I understand you were probably really busy, but you said you would call or text me and I was sad when you didn't, and it only takes a minute to send a text."
Just be sure not to use a tone you would use to reprimand someone and it shouldn't be a problem. Guys are not subtle creatures. If you want us to know something you kinda just have to come out and say it.0