I pride myself as not being the jealous type. I LOVE my boyfriend. Been together 1.5 yrs. He doesn't talk to her every day as he lives 14 hours away by car and its been 4.5 years since they dated HOWEVER, they dated for 3 years and when they split he was devastated. Told me he was a mess for over a year in fact that is why he moved well away. But he goes home once in the summer and at Xmas and she always post on fb happy b-day and recently she messaged him that she new he was coming home and that maybe they can meet for coffee. I can understand as a girl her curiosity and seeing how he is, she was the one that cheated on him, broke his heart he said.. but why would he even give a shout out to her even once in a while. I don't talk to my ex. He says he hasn't seen her but why the odd message, she broke his heart? You think he'd have a hate on for her?
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If they were friends first I don't think so. The boyfriend's I've had that I was friends with first I'm still friends with now, regardless of the circumstances of our break up. To me it sounds perfectly alright but don't be afraid to talk to him about it. If you're worried then you should feel comfortable enough to approach him about it. And he should be kind enough to reassure you. So my advice is try to stop worrying and just address it with him, and see what he says. Ask if you can talk to her online, if you're really not sure. But I'd say trust him. He's with you for a reason, because he cares about you. Otherwise he'd be waiting up for her. And if they've been talking and he had feelings for her he would have tried to get her back, not stayed with you. So just talk to him. That's always the best thing to do. People here can give you all the advice in the world but only he can give you the answers.0
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