We've been dating for 4months now. I thought I knew everything about him, but today he tells me" there's a lot you don't know about me" and it has me wondering, what don't I know? I don't like this feeling cause I feel like I tell him everything. please help. I love him, but I don't want this to end our relationship.
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I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 years and I don't know everything about him and vis versa. Its good to keep learning about him. We all have a dark secret or regret which might be best left alone. However, him saying directly, "you don't know a lot about me," makes me infer that you assumed you did know everything and he reacted in a defending way. Would you expect to actually know EVERYTHING about him in as little as 4 months? Just don't come across as "I know it all."(not that you do). Details that were never brought up in the beginning of a relationship unravel as it grows. Let him know you accept that you might not know a lot but you love to learn about him and you know how to make him happy, and isn't that all that really matters :)1