As much as I like to see the good in people I question whether people can really change after they've hurt you once. What do you think? When does someone deserve a second chance? And if you hypothetically give them a second chance, how can you make sure they've changed?
Example: my ex boyfriend dumped me suddenly and then started dating some other girl. While he was with her, he continued to contact me and he told me that he broke up with me because he didn't think he was good enough for me (not the excuse he gave initially). Well, a full year later, he has dumped his girlfriend and wants to hang out with me again. He claims to have changed and seems to be more self confident, committed, and less of a settler. Hypothetically, how could I tell if he really did change? is it even possible?
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Less of a settler is not a good thing or the answer your looking for anyway. First I wonder why he dumped you because you're quite breathtaking. And honestly for the most part I do not think people change no I don't from my own experience. To be honest if he dumped you and immediately was dating this other girl he was probably cheating on you behind your back. And if you take him back as a boyfriend I can almost be 90 percent certain he'll dump and/or cheat on you again. I say move on honey, you are cute and there's no reason why you shouldn't b dating other guys...you're young do it while you can. Don't sweat one dude who dumped you to begin with.2