How to walk away?
What Guys Said 1
I think you really need to be honest about how "picture perfect" this relationship really is. If your connection is so great, why are you guys so on and off? Why does this perfect relationship seem to have such an obvious communication issue?
If it really is this perfect, then you should be patient but like everything on GAG, we're only hearing at most half of the story here so before you decide, i think you need to be really honest about the type of relationship you two have. You have no idea how many times I've heard a woman describe hookups with a fuckboy as if the two were having a passionate, romantic courtship. I get that you're into this guy, but be honest with yourself about what this relationship really is like.
What Girls Said 3
“ guys don’t like being pressured”
It’s not realistic to not apply pressure in a mutual relationship. People apply pressure constantly it’s nit negative. And having different needs is going to be a pressure in itself. It’s fundhhg a balance of pressures basically. No one likes feeling negative pressure but pressure is unavoidable. And if something is important to one person and it will not ever necessarily be important to another, the solution is not necessarily to do nothing and smile. we all have pressures that we have to deal with. The relationship is not just about one person or who feels more pressured.
Guys don’t like being pressured usually means they don’t feel like doing something they don’t feel like doing. Which is any of us but adults are able to deal with that rationally and make decisions. He’s not a child. He should be able to handle what she needs. It doesn’t mean he will want the same but she should be able to discuss it , esp since he brought it up.
You don't walk away you hang in there sooner or later he'll decide to move forward with the relationship.
It's in his time not yours, the last thing you should do is put pressure on him, no guy likes to feel pressured and it usually backfires anyway.
Relax and enjoy him, by you doing that will make him move faster towards making it official.
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