Most Helpful Girl
Cut off all contact!!! You will never move on and heal if you are still speaking to him and pining for him. You need to accept it is over and move on with your life, that includes talking to him or checking up on him. Focus on yourself and do the things you enjoy without feeling guilty. This is your time to focus on yourself. X
Most Helpful Guy
The best thing you can do is go out and meet someone new. Also, spend more time with friends and family doing things that will keep your mind distracted and try to enjoy yourself a bit and focus on you.