Most Helpful Girls
Lol 😂 cartoon selection true though. No women do like the good guys, but then good guys are just too good. Meaning, they correct you , tell you they think makeup will make you look like a tart ( ok if excess it’s true ).
Then the good guys test the women they want to bring to their parents. Even a small shortcoming or error of judgement and we will be lectured to the heavens.
They will be like true gentlemen but also extremely judgmental like they are doing the women they love, a favor being with her.
They will preach about and actually gaslight us into thinking we are imagining our own dilemma or thoughts ( at its mildest).
It’s a form of covert narcissistic abuse meted upon us by so called ‘good guys’.
Entitlement, superiority and god complex, gas lighting and extreme vanity can be there , patronizing talk, suggestive questions that we can’t hold ourselves together.
Invalidate is because we chose to dress up at all. Even makeup and heels are chastised.
Skin routines? Oh no we are lectured that nothing needs to be done as ‘god intended we are all his children and will love us all wrinkly and let go’
Which contradicts “love thy self”.
Yes we do love ourselves or we can’t deliver that on another either.
I think they only use excerpts of any religious frame of reference to degrade us.
Both the examples above are equally abusive.
It actually paints the woman ( by gaslighting and projection) that she has questionable mental aptitude in selecting her own partners.
Most Helpful Guy
Usually "good guys" are just thirsty losers.
The actual good guys are people like my father who served in the military and married my mom, not some self proclaimed knight lol.