a Girl I've developed some interest in, keeps bringing up how her Ex called her a "sociopath" when they were breaking up. I thought she was mature, but now I'm thinking not. While I don't think she's a sociopath myself, her constant mention of what he said to her is somewhat getting on my nerves.
Why does she keep bringing it up? and what can/should I do?
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She keeps bringing it up because she probably needs validation from you that you don't think that she's a sociopath. I would sit her down and let her know that you don't think that she's a sociopath, but that she is turning you off by constantly bringing it up. It's not fair to either one of you if you just keep silent about it. She might inadvertently turn you away for good without ever having been given the opportunity to change the behavior in question. Then you both lose.1