My girl has been away for roughly half a year now and we'll likely see each other again at the end of this year. So basically, I have another year to tough it out.
She says: I know will be apart for a while cause I need to finish my degree. I understand the situation were in so you can see other girls during this time if you want but just never get serious with them and also you must end things with them once I'm back.
I know she loves me a lot and were serious about each other. We'll probably get married down the road but I'm starting to get cold feet. I'm not sure if she'll ever come back cause her family might move and live with her.
She calls and texts me everyday talking about her daily life and how she's holding up.
I haven't thought about cheating or paying attention to other girls but an opportunity has risen as a hotter and younger girl has crossed paths with me. This just so happened to fall right under my feet. The opportunities to advance are very favourable.
My main concern is whether she will ever come back since her family might move to where she is now. She might be unable to control that factor.
Secondly, I'm starting to get bored...
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Long distance relationships sucks and yours is pretty bad! It's easy to get bored with someone when they're away so long, so try and think about the good times that you two were together and try to keep things positive and don't focus on the "not coming back" part. I do however think you need to go and weight out all the con's and pro's about being with her. Do you LOVE her? Is she really really someone that's worth putting yourself through this for? If not, then there's no valid reason to still stick around. As for your main question "Is it acceptable to cheat from a long distance relationship?". Well she did give you permission but personally I don't think it's right. If you love someone with all your heart you won't have a desire to be with anyone else, ever. Even if it does mean waiting around for months. Or if there's other cute girls around. There should only be one person in your mind and that should be her. Good luck though :)0