Me and my ex-boyfriend have been on and off for the past three years. The first major break up we had was because he was scared of the feelings he developed for me. And the other times we broke up were over nothing. Everything was going well between us and out of the blue he breaks up with me. He said that he felt like he had to be with me in oder for me to stay focused in college, and that he did not want a relationship. This all sounds crazy to me because he always hated the idea of me being with someone else and he was the one always talking about marriage and moving in together. And I would always tell him wait until we both are out of college. Plus when we were not together, I did pretty well in my classes. To sum this all up I wanted to know does it seem like he is still scared or is it something else.
Is he still scared? Sorry this kind of long
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Sounds like this guy has some relationship phobias. First off, he is afraid of feeling too much for you and, then, he goes from one extreme to the other and starts talking about marriage. Now, he is back to the fear of the relationship. Clearly, the guy does care about you, but there seems to be some sort of motivation/pull that is telling him he needs to be single again. Who knows, maybe he is being pressured from his guy friends to be engaged in the single life again, or maybe he is afraid that he will tie himself down before he has enough time to enjoy single life. You are right, there is some sort of fear in him. He said that he stayed with you to do good in school, ask him what else made him stay with you. Also, ask him what his plans are now(like his future stuff like that). What he says can tell you a lot about maybe some of his hidden motivations.0
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