my ex broke up with me six months ago. Two months later he started seeing this girl who is considered to have a similar personality? My ex and I were together for a long time and were in love, even when we broke up. I still do have some feelings for him. Pretty soon I'm going to see him everyday... Do you think his feelings will come back for me if he's dating a girl similar to me?
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Maybe she has a little more of the features he liked, or just the right look. Maybe he liked her look a bit better than yours. Whose to say. But it means he was attracted to your personality, so feel happy about that. He's consistant. And I don't think they will. Because there's a reason he broke up with you, and there's a reason he's dating her, and whatever that is I'm sure it's a valid one. She's a bit quieter, and he likes that, maybe something about her looks, maybe something about how she looks at him, or talks to him. It's the little things that can be most important.
But no, don't count on it. In fact just let him go, the relationship is done and he's happy with her, so let him be happy, let her be happy. Don't try to draw him back, you'll probably end up annoying him if he really does like this girl.
However, depending on how the relationship ended he might see you as a dateable person again. Maybe you changed in little ways by the end and it was frustrating him that you weren't the girl he started dating, in that case maybe. But even if so, it's ended once and let bygones be bygones. There's no good trying to get back some one who doesn't want you. There's some one more perfect for you out there.
If you gave more details about the break up I could probably be more specific but I don't know who ended it, or why it was ended so I can't say.1
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