So me and my ex have been broken up for a year, but then were casually seeing each other. I wanted commitment, acted like a psycho and he ran. I then stopped talking to him for a month, and he's been texting me asking what's wrong and if we're on speaking terms. I don't know how to play this whole aloof thing but I wanted to see him on a 'light date' bowling perhaps? In the past I've been at his beck and call, but now I have the 'power'. Despite a year gone by I still love him very much.