I was planning on going to a party that my ex will also be attending with her new boyfriend of 2 months. I already knew about him but she text me the following:
"I'm sure you probably don't care but I have been seeing (name) for the past couple of months and am going to be bringing him along. Hope it isn't weird?"
I text back simply: "your right I don't care" and she didn't reply. I do care but didn't want to to appear bothered. Was this reply ok? I don't know why she would text me this when I already knew about them?
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She was trying to be considerate of your feelings and you basically told her you don't care what she thinks or does, which probably hurt her. It would have been better to say something like "Thanks, but I will be OK/ Ya, that's just fine".0