How is it that I can’t move on?
Most Helpful Guys
Women are biologically programmed to move on for best survival for them and their offspring. It's how they're wired.
Men love idealistically.
Women love opportunistically. They're all in 'till it doesn't suit them and then they shut down sexually, cheat bail or any combination thereof.
Get sick or injured, lose your job? Figure she'll cheat or bail. It's just the way they're built. You'll even hear the whining, "I deserve to be hhhaaaappppyyyyy". Or the famous "I love him but I'm no longer 'in love' with him".
The best way to move on is to forgive yourself. To realize you likely dodged a huge bullet. Women can be extremely toxic. And find a few more plates to spin, spin them up and see where they go. In other words, go get laid by some hot babe. You'll instantly forget the bimbo.
Greater the damage the greater the time
Most Helpful Girl
3 months are like nothing when it comes to getting over a breakup... let me guess, she was the one initiating it? Then she probably had time to process it even before she actually broke up.
Overall, the amount of time depends on the feelings invested, the duration of the relationship, who initiated it, the reason for the breakup and also your personality.